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Dating Scams To Watch Out For That Target Divorcees

Life after divorce can be a tumultuous time in one’s life, filled with a rollercoaster of emotions. The stress of going through divorce can be challenging enough that it can be difficult to even fathom the idea of dating again. However, once ready to get your feet wet and jump into the dating pool, a new set of challenges arise that we recommend recent divorcees to watch out for. You re-enter the single scene finally ready to date, only realizing you must now navigate both meeting individuals in person and the social media aspect to online dating. Both of these territories come with a slew of scammers trying to turn your heart into their cash.

Who Are These Scammers? How Do They Operate?

First and foremost, romance scammers often have multiple scams going on with multiple victims. When finding their victims online, the fraudster will pose as both men and women to attempt to maximize their gains from each victim. While the vast majority of online scammers work outside of the United States, numbers have shown that they are growing in numerous countries.

Scammers in person are another segment for recent divorcees to watch out for. These are individuals who prey upon the broken-hearted or newly single, typically by lying about their income, age, what they are looking for, and marital status. Let’s discuss these types of scams so our newly singled divorcees understand what to watch out for when looking for true love.

Scams to Watch Out For Online:

First and foremost, scammers love to target dating sites. Typically a scammer will prey on females over the age of 40 who are either divorced, elderly, disabled, or widowed. These scams attempt to prey on who the scammer believes is looking for love and in a distressed state of mind. The current top scams being conducted against recently divorced females are:

  1. The Sweetheart Scam: Also known as the “Scarlet Widow” or the “Long Distance Lover”, this scam begins with an individual creating multiple fake accounts to bait a lonely individual online into a relationship. They use mainstream dating profile sites ranging from social media sites to specific dating sites. When using social media sites, they bait victims that belong with sites for divorcees, in rural areas, or those with disabilities. The scammer moves fast, creating a “romantic relationship” by acting actively interested. They typically use fake stock photos and will always have an excuse as to why they are unable to currently speak on the phone or video chat. Once a trust is established, the scammer typically comes up with a reason they need funding. This could be to return home to the United States, they require a medical emergency surgery, bills, and so forth. Sadly, if the victim provides any financial help, this is just the beginning. The scammer will continue to ask for money until they are no longer profitable towards them. At this point, the scammer disappears and goes on to the next victim with the same false sob story. Although the sweetheart scam typically takes place on both dating sites and social media, they also target smaller sites targeted towards individuals with disabilities, specific religious faiths, or the recently divorced.
  2. The Military Man: Although many of us like a man in uniform, this is another one of those scams that are “too good to be true.” The military man pretends he is overseas on a mission and will often use the real name of an individual who is actually in the army. He will build a false identity off of this. During this type of scam, the military scammer will then ask you for gift cards and funds to help him while he is on active duty. He will likely never chat on the phone with you or video chat. If he does speak to you on the phone, beware of any accents or uncommon English errors a native English speaker would not say.
  3. The Medical Bills/Sick Patient: Similiar to the sweetheart scam, this scammer will first commit to their victim that they are committed to only them and love them. They will then spring upon the victim the fact they have some underlying illness (for example, cancer or a serious accident), and need help with medical bills. This type of scam will request you to help assist with medical bills or travel bills to come visit you. This scam is frightening, because oftentimes, they will have another scammer call pretending to be the individual’s doctor requesting payment. Avoid this at all cost and cut your losses before they dive into your pockets.
  4. The Overseas Scammer: Most of these scams occur overseas. And most of the scammers will admit they are currently overseas on a mission, asking for cash to fund a trip back home or help with their family life. This is likely a lie. The overseas scammer often claims they are working on an oil rig, on a religious mission as a missionary, fishing boat, mining, or any type of job that makes it difficult to remain in constant contact.

Scams to Watch Out For In Person:

Sadly, even dating online and meeting an individual can go wrong and happen even if you do meet the person in face to face contact. These types of scammers will lure you in with elaborate stories about how they are wealthier than they are, successful, single, and so forth. Anytime you meet an individual online in person, remember, they are still a stranger who may attempt to scam you. Our Long Island private investigators at Root Investigations recommend always running a thorough background check along with a social media investigation to see if the person you are meeting is married, has the assets he claims he has, is bankrupt, has a job, a sex offender, has domestic violence cases, or is preying upon multiple women at once. Social media should become your best friend when attempting to see if someone is “real” and who they claim they are.

Tips from a Private Investigator on How To Avoid Being Scammed If You Are A Divorcee:

Root Investigations, a New York private investigator, offers a few simple ways to determine if you are being scammed. The first recommendation is:

  • Reverse Image Search. Take the individual on the dating sites profile, save it, and run it through a reverse image search such as TinEye.com. If the individual’s photo comes back with multiple hits, it is a catfish.
  • Google Search. Consider doing a Google search for the individual’s username, full name, or any specific sentences he has said to you. When searching, put what you are looking for in quotation marks. For example, if their username is March123432, search “March123432” or their email address and see if anything comes up. Check if any dating site scams have already flagged them and recognize they may be scamming you. You can also check on Google Maps and Google Search any potential addresses the scammer has provided you.
  • If Money Is Involved. If they are ever asking you for any sort of money – this is typically a scam. No one looking for love online should need you to purchase gift cards with fake checks, send Western Unions, PayPal, and so forth, no matter how much they cry poverty. If you have not met the person, they are likely using you for your finances.
  • It’s Too Good To Be True. Avoid anything too good to be true. If it sounds too good to be true, but red flags are being seen, follow your gut.
  • They Request Private Information. Are they asking you for your social security number, date of birth, address, or any private banking information? This may seem obvious, but it occurs all too often. A scammer will never need your full banking information to deposit money into your account. Do not ever take out cash advances on your credit card for a scammer. They may do this and pay you back immediately to gain your trust, and then scam you for more the next time, with no intention of paying you back.
  • Do Due Diligence. If you believe someone is scamming you, consider hiring a private investigator to run a background check on the individual. This will allow the investigator to run both a background check and social media investigation, saving you thousands down the line.
  • They Never Visit, Phone Chat, or Video Chat. Scammers love to say they will be visiting you soon. Sadly, that day never comes. There will always be an excuse as to why they were unable to make it to your location, and they will continue to ask for more money in order to visit “next time.” Beware – there will never be a next time.
  • They Are Interested In All Of Your Hobbies. A scammer will study you. If every interest they have they have the same interest, they may be attempting to grab your heart to get closer to your wallet.
  • Requesting To Chat On A Different Dating Site. If the person asks you to stop talking on the dating site and instead talk via email, this is another sign of someone who may potentially be scamming you.
  • If this individual is on a social media site, check how many friends they have on it. See if they appear to be “real” people or all fake accounts.
  • They Are Traveling Overseas for Work. Avoid if the person claims they are from the United States but traveling for long periods of time overseas.

 

Surveillance in the Hamptons: What Works, What Doesn’t, and What Most People Don’t Expect

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Surveillance in the Hamptons is not the same as surveillance anywhere else on Long Island. The environment is different, the logistics are different, and if you approach it the same way you would in Nassau County or Queens, you’re going to run into problems quickly.

This is an honest breakdown of what actually happens during a Hamptons investigation – what makes it harder, where cases tend to develop, and what clients usually don’t expect going in.

The environment works against you in specific ways

The Hamptons looks straightforward on a map. In practice, it isn’t.

Route 27 and Montauk Highway can go from moving to completely stopped without any warning. That matters because surveillance depends on continuity – the moment you lose a subject in traffic, you’re not following anymore, you’re trying to re-establish position. Those gaps are where cases fall apart.

Properties in Bridgehapton, Sag Harbor, East Hampton, Southampton, and Water Mill compound the problem. Many sit far off the road behind gated entrances and long private driveways. Once someone pulls through a gate, observation ends until they come back out. There’s no workaround for that & it becomes a waiting game, and timing becomes everything.

Parking is another constraint people don’t think about – and that’s natural. In most areas, where you park is an afterthought. In Hamptons village centers and beach-adjacent areas, legal parking is limited and enforcement is active during peak months. If your positioning is off, you’re done before anything happens.

But the environment also creates predictability

Here’s what works in your favor: the Hamptons has a seasonal rhythm, and people follow it.

Activity concentrates in predictable places — waterfront restaurants, beach clubs, marina areas, Sag Harbor village on a Friday night. Subjects who are trying to keep something hidden still move through these environments because that’s just how life out here works in the summer.

That concentration of movement is actually useful. It means there are specific locations and timeframes where behavior is more likely to surface, and a well-structured investigation plans around those points rather than just following someone blindly.

Waterfront and marina activity is worth mentioning separately. A significant number of Hamptons cases involve subjects moving between land and water — private charters, marina meetups, travel between towns by boat. Once that becomes part of a case, road-based surveillance alone isn’t enough. You need to account for it in advance.

What most clients don’t expect

The biggest misconception is that experience makes surveillance predictable. It doesn’t. What experience does is help you prepare for what can go wrong — not just what’s supposed to go right.

In the Hamptons specifically, that often means using more than one investigator. A single position can’t cover multiple exits, maintain continuity through a traffic stop, and stay undetected in a small village area at the same time. Multi-investigator coverage isn’t a luxury here — in many cases it’s just the practical reality of the environment.

The other thing clients don’t expect is how quickly people in smaller areas notice patterns. Sag Harbor, Bridgehampton, Wainscott — these are not anonymous places. An unfamiliar vehicle sitting in the same spot twice gets noticed. Blending in here means actually fitting the environment, not just being present and hoping no one pays attention.

What this means if you’re considering hiring someone

If you’re looking at a Hamptons surveillance case, whether it’s infidelity, a custody matter, or surveillance, the structure of the investigation matters more than the hours put in. A case that’s planned around the environment, the subject’s known patterns, and the specific logistical constraints of the area will produce more than one that treats it like any other Long Island surveillance job.

If you want to talk through what a Hamptons investigation would actually look like for your situation, call us at (516) 297-1958. The first conversation is a free 30-minute consultation.

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Private Investigation Services on the North Fork of Suffolk County, NY

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Trusted Local Private Investigation Services from Greenport to Riverhead

Are you looking for a discreet and confidential Private Investigator located on the North Fork (NOFO)? Root Investigations, is proud to offer discreet, reliable, and results-driven private investigation services across the North Fork of Suffolk County, Long Island. We understand NOFO’s unique landscape and how to conduct surveillance accordingly. Towns we service include but are not limited to are:

  • Baiting Hollow
  • Calverton
  • Riverhead
  • Wading River
  • Greenport
  • East Marion
  • Orient
  • Southold
  • Peconic
  • Cutchogue
  • Mattituck
  • Laurel
  • Jamesport
  • Riverhead,

As PI’s with extensive experience, we are here to help you with your case and remain confidential.e are here to get the root of your problem. We specialize in premier investigations and are here to assist, always discreet – always confidential. 

We specialize in a wide range of investigative services, including:

As locals familiar with the unique layout and pace of the North Fork, we know how to navigate rural roads, waterfront properties, and tight-knit communities discreetly and professionally. Whether you’re in the vineyards of Cutchogue, the marina area of Greenport, or near the farm stands of Mattituck, we tailor our approach to fit your specific situation and surroundings.

Root Investigations is fully licensed and insured in New York State, and we bring years of experience and a passion for getting to the truth. We combine modern technology with street-smart tactics to give you peace of mind when you need it most. We offer investigations from “normal” individuals like myself to high-end clientele – because of this, we understand discretion and results are of the upmost importance.

If you need a private investigator on the North Fork, trust a local team that knows the area call us at (516) 297-1958 for a free consultation. 

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